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Being a parent is tough, and let’s face it, who hasn’t said something they regretted? It turns out that some of the phrases we all consider “normal” can actually be toxic to our kids. According to parenting experts, phrases like “You look terrible” and “Because I said so” can do more harm than good, sapping kids’ confidence and promoting insecurity. Who knew you could become your kid’s therapist just by watching your words?
The experts suggest that instead of shutting down conversations or blaming, we can swap out those toxic phrases with empowering alternatives. For instance, instead of “You’re so immature,” why not say, “Let’s talk about what’s bothering you?” This promotes communication and understanding rather than turning tiny issues into a raw nerve. At the end of the day, a simple shift in the way we express ourselves can transform parenting from a minefield of resentment into a garden of growth.
And let’s be honest, if we can avoid sending our kids off to therapy because we called them a “freak” over dinner, that’s a win, right? So, what phrases have you catch yourself saying that might be on the toxic list? Share your thoughts below—communication is key, after all!
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